Archive

Author Archive

On The Road Again

September 7th, 2010

I just can’t wait to get on the road again….

My Bags Are Always Packed!

This weekend Jeff and I will pack our little suitcase and head out again.  Truth of the matter, my bags are always packed.  This trip takes us to Washington DC and surrounding areas.  We got a great deal on a flight to Baltimore.  We plan to take the train into DC.  I love trains!

For the first time in twenty one years, Jeff’s twin brother lives close to us.  We are excited to spend some time with family and explore his new neighborhood.  It is just too bad we never made it to some of the oversees destinations he called home.  It is fun to hear about his travels around the world.  Last time we saw him, we learned about a pedicure in Thailand that involved fish eating dead skin.  Sounds so exotic.

n101605843212687_3161

My passport needs more stamps!

We will also attend Meet, Plan, Go , a nationwide movement to raise awareness about career breaks and extended travel.  I long to see exotic destinations all over the world.  It will be thrilling to meet people who are actually living my dream and hear their stories.

You know… all I need is some encouragement.  :)

So stayed tuned… Tiff’s latest travel adventure and just doing life!

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Travel , , , , , ,

New Orleans on my mind….

August 16th, 2010

Traveling to New Orleans… counting down the days.

I just love Desire..

I can’t believe it has been five years since Katrina.  It just seems like yesterday when Jeff and I flew there to surprise Paul, my father in-law, for his 60th Birthday.  It was a lot of fun, until I freaked out.  I did not handle it very well when I realized that I was about to experience my first hurricane.  However, the horrible ordeal did not keep me from returning.  In fact, we’ve returned every year since then (sometimes couple times a year).

In a couple weeks we’ll be heading back to celebrate Paul’s life and the revitalizing spirit of New Orleans.  The spirit and fortitude of this community is inspiring.  The citizens of New Orleans recently suffered another set back with the oil spill.  I think their word should be RESILIENT.  Maybe that is why I have a soft spot for this city.

We are staying at the fabulous Hotel Monteleone.  We had fun last year sitting in the Carousel Bar, hanging out on the rooftop pool and being walking distance from everything in the French Quarter.   It was our first year to stay at the Hotel Monteleone.  We all decided to return again, another tradition in the making.

Cajun cuisine!

You have to wear a bib to eat this dish!

You have to wear a bib to eat this dish!

Our first stop is always Desire Oyster Bar.  Hopefully we’ll see our waitress Teresa.  She treats us like family she hasn’t seen in years.  I imagine that is the kind of treatment everyone gets from her.  I have yet to try the oysters.  (SHH… don’t tell Paul)  There are just too many great restaurants in New Orleans to mention them all.  One tradition we have yet to break is eating at Pascal’s Manale for dinner.  It is located in the Garden District just down the road from where Paul grew up.  I love their BBQ shrimp, which has nothing to do with bar-b-queing.  It is a bowl of the biggest shrimp ever floating in a butter mixture that is to die for!  There will be plenty of french bread for dipping and bread pudding for desert!  MMM!

The Music!

A paddle that was used for my Birthday spanking

A paddle that was used for my Birthday spanking

I love the zydeco and jazz music that fills the streets.  One of my favorite things to do is play the washboard with Timmy at Tropical Isle.  Last year there was a fire at Tropical Isle, so we spent our time at the Ole Opera House listening to The Bonoffs and twirling on a pole.  (don’t ask)   The last memory of Tropical Isle was on my 39th Birthday.  I have a cool souvenir from that trip.

The Art and Architecture

Art inspired by Katrina

Art inspired by Katrina

I have yet to make it to Europe.  New Orleans architecture reminds me of what I might see one day.  Jackson Square always takes my breath away.  The artists that fill the streets are amazing too.  One of my most cherished pieces of art I bought from an artist in Jackson Square.

Artwork inspired by Katrina is along the river walkway, where you’ll find a series of small buses that were painted to reflect the resilient spirit of New Orleans.  Life is a journey that takes unexpected turns.  I have so many memories of New Orleans.  One memory that felt as if was a ride of a lifetime and many other memories that were pure fun!  I’m excited to head on back.

Stayed tuned at www.weekendretweat.com  I’ll be writing about this year’s trip there under Independent Travel.

Let me know if you ever want to take the trip!  There is still time to join us this year.  However, I am always open to going back.  I’ve always dreamed of taking a group there to share all my favorite spots.

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Travel , , , , , , , , , , ,

quello che è la Sua parola ~ What is your word?

August 12th, 2010

I’m faced with a question I don’t know how to answer once again.


photo by andreaweckerle.com

photo by andreaweckerle.com

“So, What do you do?”

I’ve struggled with this question for years.  When I was a stay-at-home Mom it was very hard for me to answer.  I wanted to give my life choice justice.  Gosh, where do you start?  Which hat do you want to know about?  When I was a Realtor I could answer the question with ease.  Real estate is easier to explain.  After real estate, the question became a joke.  I went to a lot of networking events, tweet-ups and social events where it was important to answer that question well.

During that phase of my life, my husband and I came up with a list of answers, “Well, I do what ever I want.”  (No respect with that one.)  ” I am a professional poll dance instructor.”  (this one I could not say without laughing)  ”I am a professional networker.” (what is that?)

I am faced with the dilemma again.  What will I say when I’m asked with the defining question, “What do you do?”

First of all, I am deeply thankful for all my choices in life.  I am grateful to live in a country that still has a dream. I can be or do anything I set my mind to.

However, I love the Italian saying, “La dolcezza di non fare niente!”  The sweetness of doing nothing.   That just isn’t acceptable in our culture that values DOING.  Maybe that is why I am so drawn to Italy.

I went to see the premier of Eat, Pray, Love with my friend Kelly Gingery.  It had been a long time since I read the book.  I was hoping to be more inspired to travel.  However, the movie seemed to be focused more on the choices we make and the choices we have or don’t have as women.

The movie reminded me of a conversation Elizabeth Gilbert had with her friends in Italy.  They were coming up with words for major cities.  New York~achieve.  Los Angeles~succeed.  Stockholm~conform.  Rome~SEX.  In their opinion every city has a word.  Elizabeth Gilbert was confronted with the question, “What is your word?”  (Marriage, Family, Achieve, Depression, Seek, Pleasure, etc.)

Now I am curious.  What is my word?

photo1

Of course, I’d like to discover my word and not be labeled by others.  I think it is sad how we label people without really knowing who they are.

For Mother’s day my sweet daughter bought me a Money Tree.  She thought it would help me with a fund I was collecting.  On her card she wrote, “PS.  you can’t kill it because it is resilient!  This money tree isn’t going anywhere.”  RESILIENT.  That spoke to me.  Boy does my daughter know me!

So, I prefer the question, “What is your word?”  I love how it sounds in Italian, “quello che è la Sua parola?”  To me, it says who are you?  What are you all about?  What is important to you?  I’d like to know you.

So, what is your word?

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Doing Life! , , , , ,

Salute to New Chapters

July 19th, 2010

“I could have seen this one coming!”  The comment I hear from everyone.

I’ve been living in that great state of confusion for far too long.

Time to make a move.

If you have kept up with DoingLifeBeingTiff,  you know I have been in pursuit of a “muse”.  Well I found it!

img_0589In the past few years my life has been a series of incisive incidents; bankruptcy, challenging relationships, giving up a real estate career, weight loss and gains, starting a new job (clocking in 8am-4:30pm for the first time in 20 years).  You know..life.

This year I had an epiphany.  I want to find a “muse”… that one niche that I was created to fill.  Along the way, I have met some great people and heard some great stories that have helped me in my pursuit of a “muse”.  I hope you enjoyed my series of interviews with my successful friends.  Freda Mooncotch, Michele Savoldi, Erin Lee and Kelly Gingery were so kind to share their insights.  I had so much fun with that project.

I follow some remarkable blogs too.  Everyday I read my Google Reader in awe of the amazing stories people are telling with their lives.  I think I’ve figured out their secret.  They have simply chosen to put themselves out there on a regular basis doing what they love.  Like Nike… Just Do It!

51gwxwz6pll_sl75_As I was reading my Google Reader one day, I came across Chris Brogans review of the book A Million Miles In A Thousand Years.  I was so intrigued that I ordered the book right away and quickly read it.  You might say that I devoured the book!  Donald Miller put into words what I have believed all my life.  While writing a screenplay about his memoir, Donald discovered that he was rather bored with his story.  He wondered if his life was telling the story he wanted to tell.  Exactly how I feel!  I loved Chris Brogan’s description, “It sounds simplistic, but there’s a lot to it.”

Key insights I gained from A Million Miles In A Thousand Years:

  • We don’t remember half of a half of our lives.  We don’t make an effort to jot it down.
  • In most great stories lines, the main character has an incisive incident.
  • We can change our story
  • Can’t be afraid of chaos or conflict
  • It is good to listen to the writer of our story
  • Start by putting something down on the page… “Your life is a blank page.  You write on it.”

I have known for a long time now that I am not living the story I want to tell.

I believe wholeheartedly that God has created us with purpose.  I have been unhappy and bored with my story for a long time.  I can’t say there was one incisive incident, but more like a series of unhappy circumstances along with some great opportunities.

Two things I know about myself… I was born to promote.  And I have an incurable entrepreneurial spirit.

I thrive in the creative process and sharing things I love.  Recently I decided to Just Do It…put myself out there doing what I love.  Some friends and I started Weekend Retweat,  a group of gals promoting retreats and resorts using our collective social media savvy.  Weekend Retweat combines my love of promoting with travel!  I also stepped out in the scary world of speaking.  Shane Haggerty and I held a seminar for our local chamber of commerce, Social Media in a Small Town.  That is one fear I can check off my list!

The reward for “putting myself out there” is that I now have a few clients that have hired me to do PR for them using various social media platforms.  I actually get paid to do something that makes me come alive and doesn’t feel like work.

The conflict in my story.

Last November I was offered a job at The Hall Company by Wes Brown, a friend and former co-worker in real estate.  I jumped at the opportunity to work with Wes.  He was an incredible manager of our real estate office and a born salesman.   I was so thankful to have a job in an economy with so many on unemployment.  The Hall Company is an excellent company!  This was the first time that I clocked into a desk job in twenty years.  Needless to say, it was a struggle for me.  I love the company and all the people I work with, but couldn’t get accustomed to clocking in and conforming to a corporate environment.

As I continue to take on more projects that I love, it became apparent that I could not physically do both.  My entrepreneur spirit fought with the notion of being in a safe secure job on a daily basis.  Chaos is trying to do too much.  I had to make a choice.   What kind of story did I want to tell?

I am not one to quit or let people down.  So after weeks of stewing over it I made the decision.  It took me two days to finally approach the subject with Wes.  I had to remind myself that this fear was preventing me from telling my story.  So, I finally gathered my courage and approached him with my decision to resign my position at the Hall Company and follow my heart.  He was great!  I know he wasn’t happy about it, but was totally supportive.  I am so thankful for my time at the Hall Company.  I learned a lot about manufacturing and working with people.

Did I mention that I have a totally supportive husband?   Jeff supports my pursuit and is encouraging me.  That helps a lot.

I immediately e-mailed my closest friends to tell them my crazy news.  Come to find out, many of my friends feel the same way I do.  One friend commented, “Can’t tell you all the days I’ve awaken and wished I was doing exactly what you are doing.  Going for your dreams and following your passion.  I guess as far as having to work for the man, I can’t complain since technology is my passion to a degree, but to have the freedom to set my own destiny and plan each day on my own terms would be the ultimate dream.  So I am sooooo envious of you for taking this leap of faith and I know you will make this happen.  So awesome.”  Well, that made my heart happy!

A part of me feels that I could use this experience to help propel others to leap into the story they want to tell.  I would love to inspire people to live authentically and with purpose!

Serendipity is my friend.

You are not going to believe this.

The day after I summoned the courage to quit my job I read an exciting announcement on Donald Miller’s blog.

Donald Miller’s Blog is one blog that I read daily.  He continues to inspire me to live a good story!  I knew from keeping up with his blog that he was organizing a Living A Better Story Seminar.  I didn’t think I’d be able to go.  At the time he announced the seminar I didn’t think I could take off work.

As I was sitting at my desk catching up on all the articles in my Google Reader, I read Donald Miller’s headline.  Win a Trip for Two to Portland for the Living a Better Story Seminar. My heart skipped a beat and I wanted to jump out of my seat.  I could hardly contain my excitement.  Winning this contest would combine all my passions… travel, promoting, learning more about telling a better story and learning to inspire people to pursue a better story.

Pick me!  Pick me!  I’m a natural fit…don’t you think?

I truly believe that this seminar will help me refine my story with more clarity.  And in the theater of my mind, I imagine it to be the perfect ending to the past few years and beginning to a new chapter in life.

If I don’t win, does anyone want to sponsor me?  I am currently unemployed now.  :)



Living a Better Story Seminar from All Things Converge Podcast on Vimeo.

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Doing Life!, Finding My Muse Interviews , , , , , ,

Latest Interview ~ Kelly Gingery, FlickChick

July 12th, 2010

In search for my “Muse” has never been so amusing!

ac29dfdf7f8464554c822d222092e55d_view

Kelly Gingery’s love for movies and pulp culture is contagious!  Her reviews are delivered with wit and an uncanny ability to remember facts and little known details of movies past, present and upcoming.  I had the privildge of meeting Kelly through Twitter, Tastecasting and various Tweetups in Columbus, OH.  It has been fun to watch Kelly go from blogging about movies for friends and family, to landing a gig with 107.9 as the Mix Flick Chick and now with a full fledge following of her FlickChickTv website.  On any given week, you can find Kelly at several screenings of upcoming movies.

We sat down and chatted in front of the green screen to discuss her success.

Kelly has truly taken her passion and turned it into something she can share with all her movie loving friends.  We had a blast using all kinds of movie analogies to describe her journey.  The insight gleaned…. just get yourself out and do what you love.  You just might fall into it!

Thanks Kelly and Jason Blanton for producing this fun interview!

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Finding My Muse Interviews , , , ,

Walking in Memphis

July 7th, 2010

I’ve neglected my space…

too busy doing life!

I learned a lot from my interviews with my friends. The main lesson for me is… life brings you great opportunities when you put yourself out there and pursue what you love. That is exactly what I plan on doing!


What am I doing?

27517_111924948817786_9427_nMy biggest project has been Weekend Retweat. We finally have our new web site  www.WeekendRetweat to record all our great adventures. I’m very excited about all the latest developments with our group.  We’ve added a few more faces and began covering Independent Travel. This new category will be a place for the Retweaters to share all the cool places they travel with their family and friends. There are so many great sights to see and people to meet along the way!

I am also working with new clients.  I’m helping them develop social media strategies and having a blast. I love to come up with ideas to promote businesses. I really believe that social media has changed the playing field now. Sure there will always be advertising, but I love the interaction with customers. Word of mouth baby! It has been and will always be the way to effectively reach your target audience.

As much as I love doing… I need time to just be Tiff!

phpd7ztciam

Jeff and I have taken a week off to visit our friend Erin Lee in Memphis.  I love to travel…and just be.

I am sitting in her loft in downtown Memphis as I write this. I really love this town! This has been a real vacation. No agenda, no hurrying to see sights, we are just chillin.  I needed this time off.  We are headed to Clarksdale, MS next to get shacky at Erinz Shack.  She recently finished her shack at Shacksdale Motel.  This coming weekend is The Most Southern Weekend On Earth festival at Ground Zero.  Rumor has it that Morgan Freeman will be in town.  Ya know I’ll snap a pic of that!

Feeling a little creative the past two days.  So, I decided to snap pictures of some of my favorite sites in Memphis.  Can’t seem to embed it, so click on the link.  Enjoy!

Walking In Memphis

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Promoting My favorite places

Weekend Retweat at The Inn At Cedar Falls

June 17th, 2010

A true vacation is a chance to relax….

 

100_46921A true vacation is a chance to relax and to escape everyday life by retreating to a place in the woods or a lovely secluded beach; even if it is for only one night. Recently, the Weekend Retweaters’ were invited to stay at the Inn & Spa At Cedar Falls. Michele Savoldi, Rose Landon and I were thrilled to have this opportunity to retreat from our hectic lives and be pampered at the Inn.

A short senic drive from Columbus, Ohio; The Inn & Spa At Cedar Falls is located south of Columbus in Hocking Hills. Hocking Hills is a special place for me. Some of my earliest memories are of camping at “old man in the cage”; at least that is what I called it. I loved Old Man’s Cave, despite the fact that I really believed there was an old man living in the “cage”. As a teenager, I went with a youth group to Geneva Hills regularly and took my first independent road trip with my friends to Hocking Hills. My husband and I have taken road trips on our Harley there just to get away and a couple years ago celebrated our anniversary at The Inn & Spa At Cedar Falls. Hocking Hills is an ideal getaway spot for both adventure and relaxation.

Life is enough of an adventure at times. I was looking forward to a relaxing getaway.

100_4718

The first impression of The Inn & Spa at Cedar Falls is simply inviting. The landscaping is just gorgeous! There is plenty of outdoor seating that seem to say, “relax and sit for a while.” The outstanding staff welcomed us with an impressive attention to details. Checking into the Hickory Hollow Cabin was yet another confirmation that this would be a retreat in the woods, a true vacation.

100_4704

After I checked into our cabin, I headed straight for the Spa. I had a message appointment with Randall Wellman, spa manager. The Spa is in a former cabin tucked in the woods and offers a variety of treatments that all sound fabulous. The view of the woods from the message room is so peaceful. I felt as if I was getting a message out in nature. It was the perfect start to the retreat! Randall told me that they do spa treatments for couples, mother/daughters and girls getaways. I will be back!

100_4746Michele, Rose and I had a great time hanging out at the cabin and exploring the grounds. When we arrived at the restaurant for our dinner reservations, it was filled with couples having romantic dinners and groups enjoying each other’s company. We watched an older couple holding hands as they sat and talked on the deck outside the window by our table. It was fun to imagine our own version of their story. The Executive Chef, Anthony Schultz has prepared an incredible menu. The food is amazing! I had the Fennel & Cardamom Rubbed Salmon, served with linguine and cheesecake for desert. Michele and Rose both had incredible looking dishes. Pleasantly filled from dinner, we welcomed a walk back to the cabin.

The next morning we enjoyed the morning with coffee on the back deck. The photo3deck is built up and feels like a tree house in the woods. Still thinking about dinner the night before, we headed back to the restaurant for breakfast. I loved the homemade granola, fresh fruit and pancakes served with an orange butter. It was fabulous!

100_47311

 

After breakfast we had the chance to chat with the Innkeepers, Ellen and Terry. As always, one of my favorite parts of travel is the people you meet! I love their story. Ellen’s mother, Anne Castle had a dream and vision for the Inn & Spa At Cedar Falls. Ellen and Terry met and fell in love working towards Anne’s dream. Eventually, the couple took over operating the Inn, which became a wonderful lifestyle to raise their family in. It was really fun to listen to their commitment to the growth and development of their business. They recently added a beautifully designed meeting facility. Once again, I was impressed with the attention to detail. Ellen and Terry seem to work so well together. Ellen is committed to their mission and vision, while Terry is diligent at using green methods in building.

As I checked out that morning, I was already planning my next retreat from life. I love the atmosphere, the food, the pampering, the people and the service. I want to return with my husband, my friends and my family. I think everyone needs a true vacation from time to time.

 

To learn more about our trip visit:

www.facebook.com/retreat

 

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Promoting My favorite places, Travel , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Interview with Erin Lee ~ New Businesswoman!

June 9th, 2010
Erin on the front porch of her shack

Erin on the front porch of her shack

 

I have had the privilege of knowing Erin Lee for over 10 years.  Erin was our generous neighbor in West Point Mississippi who allowed us to “borrow” her electricity as we renovated an old home next to her.  I think she was just happy someone was going to fix the place up. 

Erin is a very successful Nurse Practitioner, now working in Memphis, TN.  I have always admired how she put herself through college to pursue nursing, which she seems to have a natural talent for.    

Although she loves her job as a Nurse Practitioner, Erin has recently added business women to her title.  Erin is a visionary when it comes to decorating and designing.  Her home in West Point was a page out of Better Homes and Garden.  I love that everything in her home has some kind of story.  Currently Erin lives in a three story loft condo in downtown Memphis that she has renovated and gave her personal touch.  Erin also worked on a condo project in Memphis turning an old Quansa Hut into artsy living spaces.  After all these years, an amazing opportunity came her way to build shacks at the Shacksdale Motel in Clarksdale, MS.  The shacks are new buildings made to look like old shacks.  (see my companion article Shacksdale ~ A Story in the Making) She is now using her gift for finding treasures to outfit the shacks.  She has definitely found her muse and is having a blast!  Her story illustrates how I envision finding a muse.   

Needless to say, I am very excited to ask my very good friend (I have the coolest friends) questions about her journey and gather more insight!

 

Erin finding some treasures

Erin finding some treasures

Q: Erin, I know how thrilled you are to be working with your partners on the Shacksdale Motel.  How does it feel to now become a business woman? 

A: It has been a real learning experience that’s for sure, but a great experience; becoming an LLC, getting a business account, setting up accounts in Clarksdale and dealing with tradesmen. It has all been a wonderful experience.

 

Q: I know you also worked very hard to become a Nurse Practitioner and are happy with your career.  How does working on your own business compare to becoming a Nurse Practitioner and launching your career?  

A: Working on the shack is a release from the very serious aspects of my job as a nurse practitioner. It was born from a desire to have fun and to enjoy life in a simpler way; to go to Clarksdale to enjoy music and friends and to see people expressing themselves creatively through the music and art.   

                                    

Q: Do you remember a time when you questioned your decisions and/or what to do with your life?  If so, what do you contribute to your ability to get back on course and achieve success in life?

A: I have the greatest friends and family in the world. Any time there has been questions, backslides, whatever, they have been there, always supportive.

 

Q: I didn’t get the sense you were looking for a new project when this opportunity presented itself.  When you look back at the chain of events that led to Shacksdale Motel, do remember an “a-ha” moment?  Or did you just know from the very beginning that this project was destiny?

A: No I was not looking for a new project. I guess the “a-ha” moment was when Barry and Sally came over and said we should all be involved. This was after they had been to Clarksdale and met Jim and looked at what the Shack Up inn had accomplished.

 

Q: You have always enjoyed collecting treasures and are talented at the art of finding a good deal.  Did you ever think your passion would benefit you in a business? 

A: Well, over the years, I had thought about having a booth in an antique mall or starting an Ebay business, but had never thought it would be buying and decorating in the “shack motif”!!!! What fun it has been. You should see the looks I get when I buy something that is totally shacky or stop on the side of the road to pick up old bead board.

 

Q: You seem to come alive when you talk about Shacksdale and have said that you regularly pinch yourself.  What have you learned about yourself in the process? 

A: I have learned a great deal about my communication style. I have learned that listening, really listening is most important.  I have learned to listen.

 

Q: You speak highly of your partners.  I am sure they have been wonderful at inspiring and pushing you.  Do you have any mentors, favorite authors or quotes that inspire you as well?

A: Do for others as you would have them do for you.

 

Q: Do you have any advice or anything you would like to add?

 A: I feel that I have been given an unbelievably wonderful gift. It has been amazing working with all the people that made my shack a reality. It has been a fantastic journey. Every time someone new visits the shack and writes in the guests book what a wonderful place it is, I am thankful for all the people that made it happen.

 

Thanks Erin for sharing some insights into your successful journey.  In the process you have helped me realize that the best blessings in life are not forced or fought for.  Shacksdale is a labor of love, flowing from passion for Clarksdale, music and the people mixed with a lot of hard work.  I’m so excited for you!

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Finding My Muse Interviews , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Shacksdale ~ A Story in The Making

June 9th, 2010

Editor’s note:  This is an article I recently wrote for CheapOAir at Cheap Tickets, and a companion article to an Interview with Erin Lee.

Clarksdale, MS Crossroads

Clarksdale, MS Crossroads

Visiting Clarksdale, MS for the first time, you get the feeling there is a story residing.  Blues is the main attraction.  Enthusiasts flock to Clarksdale to celebrate, honor and experience the blues.  To sing the Blues, the legend has it that Robert Johnson sold his soul to the devil at the Crossroads of 61 & 49.  Decades later a growing number of people find themselves at a crossroad in life and are choosing to contribute to the story.

The Shacksdale Motel is a story in the making.

Erin Lee from Memphis first visited Clarksdale on New Years Eve 2004, celebrating at Ground Zero Blues Club and staying at the Shackup Inn. Since then, she has made New Year’s Eve in Clarksdale an annual event.  Erin soon began to envision building her own “shack-o-miniums”, complete with dogtrots (sleeping porch).   In 2009 had a random discussion with Barry Thornhill.  Barry and his wife Sally wanted to organize a Blues Festival.  Erin’s friend Jim Field had just purchased six acres across from the Shackup Inn.  Erin knew Jim and Barry needed to connect.  Within two weeks of the introductions, the shareshack concept was given birth, which became the Shacksdale Motel.  Erin likes to say that Barry is the gasoline to a project.  By September 2009 construction was underway.

Erin's Shack

Erin's Shack

 

Reminiscing over the past year, Erin gets choked up.  Her shack is perfectly decked out with treasures from a lifetime of collecting.  Always the gracious hostess, Erin enjoys telling the story of each detail in her shack.  “Barry Thornhill, Roy Thornhill and Jim Field have my upmost respect and made my shack happen,” Erin says.  She also credits her son Josh and the kindness of family and friends.  Now open for business, reservations can be made at the Shackup Inn.  The partners regularly pinch themselves over the story they find themselves in. 

 

The Characters of Clarksdale

 

The fascinating part of travel for me is not necessarily the destination, but the people you meet.  Staying at the Shacksdale Motel, the people will welcome and entertain you.  Bill Talbot, one of the owners of the Shackup Inn, is hilarious with a constant flow of original content.  Another owner, Guy Malvesi has a legendary attitude.   Erin fondly says, ” He is a kermudgeon that doles out the charm and abuse equally.” The locals who were born and raised in the Delta are as sweet as pie and will serve up a healthy portion of their famous southern hospitality. 

 

Many of the new characters of Clarksdale have chunked corporate America and international careers.  Mainly associated with the Blues and art, they originate from all over the world.  A couple from Florida owns the Hambone Art Gallery.  Another couple, one from Holland and the other from New York, created the Rock-n-Roll & Blues Herritage Museum.  Randall Andrews, the chef at Rust, was born in the Delta, moved to Las Vegas to pursue a career as a chef to LA celebrities and returned to give back to his community.  John Henshall from Australia passed through on a whim and now comes back regularly.  Although not a permanent resident, John was given the key to the city for his work on an economic report he completed to help in the revitalization of Clarksdale. 

 

100_41371Whether it’s the Blues at the juke joints or the art that brings you to Clarkdale, once you uncover the stories you will fall in love with the culture and the people.  Be sure to cop a squat at The Shacksdale Motel!  And while you kick back on the porch listening to the Blues, dream up your own place in the Clarksdale lure.

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Promoting My favorite places, Travel , , , , , , , , , , ,

Interview With Michele Savoldi

May 24th, 2010

Michele Savoldi ~ finding her muse and making a difference along the way!

25110_1316041215059_1051582975_30802697_7208726_nIn my quest to find my muse, I have set out to interview the many people I know to be successful. I hope to gain insight into their success.

Michele Savoldi is one classy lady, exuding success wearing all the various hats in her life. I have had the pleasure of getting to know Michele through our common interest in social media and marketing. We met participating in Tastecasting, contributing to www.greatestcityofall.com and fortunately became friends along the way. Michele is generous with her time and gifts, promoting the non-profit community in addition to running her own marketing and Communication Company, columbus imPRessions. I love her ability to gracefully juggle family, friends and career.

Tiff: You seem to have a natural ability for branding, design and marketing. Have you always loved marketing and branding, or did you discover your gifts over time? Do you believe you have found your muse?

Michele: Thanks! I have actually always loved all types of designing! From redecorating a room in my home, to creating landscape and gardening beds in my yard, to laying out marketing pieces. I love to create! It’s my expression of self and I feel at peace when I’m using my creativity in any way. Even though I love to use my creativity I didn’t always know that I wanted to do marketing and branding. I went into college pretty much undecided and came out with a business degree and was still pretty much undecided. It was during my second job, at a radio station, that my eyes lit up at the thought of doing public relations. I liked the idea of making news and creating awareness. With that I spent a number of years focusing on public relations and worked at an ad agency and then at a large corporation in the public relations department. I enjoyed what a did, but didn’t feel driven. It wasn’t until I took some time off work to raise my kids that I found my muse. While home with the kids, in order to stay connected and current to the outside world, I did a lot of volunteer work. It was during my time volunteering on special events and various programs for a few nonprofits that I found my passion for design and marketing. It did feel natural and it was energizing. But what was most important to me was that I was using my passion to help make a positive difference. When the kid’s were ready for school, I was ready to go back to work and I did so as a Director of Marketing, Communications & Branding for a large nonprofit organization. It was there that I met an incredible mentor who was a board member. With his help I was able to craft my skills and learn how to be strategic about marketing, branding and public relations. And then came the boom of social media, which has taken me places I never dreamed possible. I sincerely believe I found my muse. It has and will change over time, but the foundation of what it is will always be the same.

Tiff: Did you ever question your choices or the direction you were heading in regards to your career?

Michele: I really haven’t questioned my choices or direction in my career. I strongly believe that everything, and everyone comes into your life for a reason. The reason could be something simple, or a lesson that needs to be learned, or a life alteration. Throughout my career, I have learned from my experiences whether they be, good, bad or indifferent. Each experience has helped me grow and has gotten me to where I am today. The birth of columbus imPRessions came from an experience that if I let it, could have been a terrible situation. A couple years ago the unthinkable happened. I was working at a job I enjoyed for a mission I loved when unexpectedly I was asked to leave the organization. Not because of poor work performance but because I had a blog - imPRessions. imPRessions was a blog a co-worker and I started on our own time to learn more about social media and to express our personal thoughts and opinions about the marketing and PR world. I’m not sure if my boss at the time did not understand social media, was jealous, or felt threatened, but regardless of her reasoning I was forced to resign my position. After the initial shock I decided this was a moment of a life-time. Instead of wallowing in self pity I decided to turn a bad situation into a great opportunity and actually turned the blog imPRessions into a business - columbus imPRessions, a marketing and communication business primarily serving small businesses, trade associations and nonprofit organizations. Things for columbus imPRessions have grown and changed since the first day I made that decision and I know, and hope, things will continue to change. Because with every change comes adventure, understanding, growth and evolution. I understand that while I may not be able to control each situation, I do have the power to decide how I will handle anything that comes my way. Instead of allowing myself to become a victim of circumstance I strive to take tough situations and turn them into positive occasions. It is through these occasions that I am continually growing both professionally and personally.

Tiff: What does success look like to you? Has your definition evolved over time?

Michele: Success to me comes in all shapes and sizes and always has. I look at each situation and try to find a success in them. If I can’t find the success, then I look for the lesson. Once the lesson is found success is achieved! I’ve had a couple big successes recently. When I started columbus imPRessions I also founded In-Kind Connection (www.inkindconnection.com), a complimentary website helping nonprofit organizations in accruing much needed in-kind donations. Nonprofits send me their needs or businesses send me their haves then I post them on the site and also broadcast them over various forms of social media platforms in hopes of making a connection. Awhile back I made a connection by helping a school in Africa for Aids children find lap size chalkboards for each student. They needed 100 of them and because of In-Kind Connection, the word got out and a connection was made. It was pretty awesome! Last month I helped open a new restaurant in New Albany. I created the branding, everything from the logo, tag line, to the marketing pieces and social media elements. When they had their soft launch celebration my family and I went to enjoy dinner. It was pretty amazing walking in and seeing the brand I created all over the place, from the signage, menu, cash registers, etc. Then to have my family tell me how proud they were of me was so gratifying! Other successes like helping a friend achieve a goal, watching my kids instinctively do something I’ve tried to instill in them, accepting and learning from a situation, making someone laugh, or appreciating all my blessings are incredibly gratifying successes as well.

Tiff: What are some of your favorite mentors, books and/or celebrities that have shaped your view on success? Do you have any favorite quotes you live by? What advice do you give to your children when they talk about their future?

Michele: My parents have been huge mentors for me. They lead very giving lives and are always putting others first. I have quite a few friends who are mentors to me. So many of them have the entrepreneurial spirit and aren’t afraid to try new things. Professionally I was lucky enough to work with a board member from a big Fortune 500 company. He shared with me so much wisdom and information in the marketing and branding industry. There is no college that could teach me what he did! While I do read books and have some favorite celebrities I tend to look to my real life interactions and situations to pull inspiration.

I do have a favorite Italian proverb - “At the table with good friends and family you do not become old”. It reminds me that above everything family and friends are the most important things in your life.

Anytime a situation is presented in a regular day I give advice to my kids about their future. I do it this way because it is more of a conversation than me coming across preachy. Plus when the situation is presented it can serve as an immediate example. Like every parent, I want my kids to be happy with whatever they decide to do with their future. I tell them that in life they will make mistakes and that is fine. It’s what they learn from those mistakes that will shape them as a person. I also hope that like I did with my parents, my kids will learn from my actions too.

Tiff: Michele, you have many wonderful characteristics; such as your generosity, kindness and a great work ethic. One characteristic that I highly admire is your confidence. Confidence seems to be a problem for so many people, including myself. What do you believe contributes to your confidence?

Michele: You’re so kind, thank you. I’m not always so confident, I just might be a little better at hiding it. :) There have been plenty of times I’ve jumped into something and wasn’t sure if I was doing the right thing. But instead of stressing over it too much I try to focus on the adventure, the lesson, and the growing opportunity. I also have pretty strong faith. Faith in God that He introduces me to situations for a reason and faith in myself that I can figure it out and make it as good as I can. Because unfortunately there is quite a few bad things in the world, I feel it is my responsibility to do what I can to put some good things into it. You know, trying to do my small part in helping balance it out. When you see the fruits of your labor, especially for the greater good it does amazing things for your self-worth and confidence. I’ve also had the support of my family, which is very reassuring and boosts confidence. They are a big part of why I’m able to do what I love.

Tiff: I understand that many women (and men too) are juggling life. How do you approach all the opportunities you have before you?

Michele: I try to achieve balance and with that sometimes I have to say “no”. As much as I wish I could, I know I can’t do it all so I have to look at everything and prioritize. Owning my own business gives me the freedom to create the schedule I want or need at that moment. That really helps with family, friends and career!

Tiff: Any upcoming projects that you are currently working on that you want to share?

Michele: I’m continuing my work with 10TV Commit To Be Fit, writing for various on-line publications, doing some speaking engagements, working on some fun projects with friends, looking forward to summer adventures with the kids, and working on details for possibly helping out a trade association with some event marketing. It looks to be a busy summer!

Tiff: Thanks so much Michele! I appreciate your time in answering these questions. I am learning so much from amazing women like you!

Michele: Thanks for asking me Tiff! I’m very touched that you would think to include me in the quest! You have many talents and I look up to you for the fire you have. You are not afraid to try and to learn. Those are great qualities to have and I admire them and you.

  • Share/Save/Bookmark

Finding My Muse Interviews , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Spam prevention powered by Akismet